Dear Ones,
How are you?
As the end of the second quarter approaches in our son’s high school, I am compelled to look at the energy we deploy when we want someone else to do something. In this case, completing missing assignments and retaking tests.
Honestly, I must admit that all this energy we poured into our son’s body and mind has had limited success.
Does that sound familiar?
Did you ever face a situation when a person, or even a pet, wouldn’t do what you asked her or him to do?
Why was it so, you think?
Because of too much–what-kind-of-energy—on your end?
I mean, what kind of energy is behind the need to control?
Fear (of obtaining a good education and failing) is obviously running high in our case.
Perhaps the little blurb below, excerpted from a recent Arcturian Group message, will help us.
A question came.
Is there really a Divine Controller in all of us? And that perhaps that Divine Controller’s strategy is, at times, to not want to do anything? So that the person can learn a lesson?
Indeed, I thought that letting go, and trusting what the future might reveal, even years ahead, might be the best approach to this situation.
Time will tell, obviously. Knowing there are five days before the end of the quarter and …. a big snow and ice storm looming….
Topic: The energy of control
Time: Jan 22 @ 3:00 PM Eastern Time (New York)
Meeting ID: 825 5303 6803
The underlying energy of control is the three dimensional belief that humans are separate from God/Divine Consciousness, the belief that there is not a Divine Controller already fully present within every person. It is the belief that there are powers other than the ONE power waiting around every corner to harm, kill, destroy etc. These beliefs create fear, fear of what could, may, or will happen if things are not done or people don’t conform in a certain way. The belief that God’s creations need fixing, healing, and changing is simply the hypnotism of a world that believes in separation from God.
The men, women, countries, leaders, governments etc. who function from a consciousness of control believe that they are entitled to tell others what to do because they believe that they are wiser, more experienced, smarter, and in positions of power–all manifestations of ego, the false personal sense of self. Allow your intuition to guide you when giving help, guidance, and direction to others, always doing it from a place of love and not superiority. Be very honest about whether your guidance and assistance is based in ego or love.
It is an act of love to assist another with your attained wisdom, experience, and knowledge, but only if or when the other person wants and is receptive to receiving it.
Never, in spite of any outer appearances, doubt that you and all living things are individualized expressions of One Divine Consciousness (God) manifesting not a little bit, but the fullness of Itself in, as, and through every person. Bring this to mind every time you are tempted to use control to make something or someone “better” according to your or the three dimensional world’s concepts of what constitutes “better”.
Every individual at some point of their evolutionary journey must accept that there is a Divine Controller within every person which may occasionally mean letting another fall flat on their face if that is what they need in order to wake up. Your job as an awakened person is to have your hand out, ready to grab another’s hand should they reach out. Your job is NOT to reach down and pull another out of their personal gutter experience without their wanting, seeking, or asking. They may have specifically chosen their present experiences for learning and evolving.
Nurturing the Gift of Seeking 